Monday, August 17, 2015

Khalq aur Khulq, Sifat-e-Tawaazu, Kibr wo Ijz

Eemaan asal mein "Khulq" ka ek hissa hai. Kalimah jo hai woh asal mein akhlaaq ka ek hissa hai. Ek hai "Khalq" aur ek hai "Khulq". Khalq jo hai woh zaahiri banaawat ka naam hai jaise shape, shakal, aank, naak kaan wagaira. Aur Khulq jo hai woh baatini/androoni banaawat ka naam hai. Is ka doosra lafz "Seerat" hai. Khulq ki jama akhlaaq hai. Akhlaaq jo hai woh baaz maqsoos aamaal ka naam nahi hai balke Sifaat ka naam hai. Androoni banaawat ka taalluq sifaat se hai.

Yeh jo khulq hota hai yeh aadmi ki us sifat ko kehte hain jis sifat se aadmeeyat aur insaaniyat se aadmi mausoof hota hai. Aur yeh asal mein eemaan ki sifaat se muttasif hone ka naam hai. Eemaan apni sifaton ke saath hai. Jaan pehchaan bhi uska usi se hai. Kamaal wo mei'yaar bhi uska usi se hai. Jaise rooh apni sifaton ke saat hai warna rooh koi aisi cheez nahi ho nazar aati hai. Aqal apne sifaton ke saat hai. Aqal kisi ku dikhti nahi. Eemaan bhi apni sifaton ke saath hai. Isi liye Qur'an-e-Paak mein eemaani sifaton ka zikr hai bahut jagah.

Akhlaaq ke maahireen yeh kehte hain ke NAFS se mutalliq jitne ausaaf honge woh Razeelah honge aur woh Kufr ke rishtedaar hain. Haafiz Ibn Qayyin R. A. ne isi badi achi tafseel ki hai. Aur dil se mutalliq jo ausaaf hote hain woh eemaani sifaat hai aur woh sab eemaan ke rishtedaar hain. Aur unko Akhlaaq-e-Hameedah kehte hain. Dil ki woh jo sifat hai us se aamaal sarzad hote hain. Amal jo hai nateejah hai sifat ka.

Baaz martaba is duniya mein takalluf se sifat nahi hone ke baawajood amal zaahir kiya jaata hai. Yeh is duniya ki kharaabi hai. Sifat us wasf ko paida karne ka naam hai jis se kab bhi amal saadir ho toh us ke nateejeh mein saadir ho aur smoothly saadir ho tab woh sifat bani warna woh bani nahi. Is ko aasaani se hum yun samjh sakte hain ke jab ham tajweed ka halqa karte hain toh us mein baaz saathi aise hote hain jinku tajweed aati hai. Kis lafz ka makhraj kahan se nikaal na hai unko aata hai. Aise banda jahan par bhi Qur'an-e-Paak mein se padhe ga woh har waqt sahi makhaarij se padhe ga. Aur aap dekhenge ke bahut se saathi aise hain jo baaz suraton ke masalan Surah Faatihah ke aur jo aakhri das suratein hain us ke andar "badee haa" aur "ain" ki mashq kar lete hain ke yahan pe yeh lafz aise nikaal na hai. Aisa banda Qur'an-e-Paak mein jahan "badee haa" aaigi wahan "badee haa" nahi nikaalega. Wahin niakalega bas jin Suraton mein nikaalne ki mashq ki hai masalan Surah Faatihah mein "Alhumdulillahi Rabbil 'Aalameen" mein. Kyun ke yeh wasf nahi bana balke ba takalluf naqal karne ki aadat daali gayi. Aise hi sifaat jo hai woh banaaye jaate hain mehnat kar ke. Jab woh ban jaate hain toh phir woh jo logon ke saath narmi se pesh aana, akhlaaq se pesh aana, murawwat se pesh aana wagaira yeh hamesha yaksaan hote hain. Isi wajah se yeh kitaabon mein likha hai ke kaafir ke paas akhlaaq kaarobaari hoga, garz par dependent hoga. Jaise hi garz badli khud woh bhi badal jaayega. Aur mu'min ke paas akhlaaq sifaati hota hai kaarobaari nahi hota. Us ne us sifat ku Allah Paak ki pasandeedah sifat hone ki wajah. se ikhtiyaar kiya hai. Woh hamesha waisa hi rahega.

In mein jo qalb (dil) se mutalliq sifaat hain jo bilkul against hote hain nafs ke toh un qalb se mutalliq sifaat ki jo buniyaadein hain woh das (10) hoti hain. Aur nafs se mutalliq jo sifaat hote hain un ki buniyaadein das (10) hoti hain. Aur in ke furoo'aat yaani branches be hisaab hain. Aur is mein jo cheez pesh aati hain umooman woh hai "TAWAAZO" (Fanaaiyat). Jis ki soofiyah ke yahan bahut mehnat karaayi jaati hai aur jis ku buniyaad qaraar diya jaata hai. Abdiyat ke andar asal "Tawaazo" hi hoti hai. Tawaazo ki haqeeqat yeh hai ke apne aap ku pehchaan kar khud ko kuch na samajh na - na ilm ke aitebaar se, na amal ke aitebaar se, na qaabiliyat ke aitebaar se, na sifaat ke aitebaar se. Aur jo kuch bhi aadmi ko apne paas nazar aata hai woh us ka hota nahi. Woh sab wujood ke asraat hain aur wujood bande ka apna nahi hota. Ummhaatul Sifaat kehte hain inko - Hayaat, Ilm, Iraadah, Khudrat, Sama'at, Basaarat, Kalaam yaani Zindagi, Jaan-na, Iraadah karna, Khudrat rakhna, Sun-na, Dekhna, Bolna. Yeh jo sifaat hai yeh wujood ke tawaabe (under mein) hai. Aur wujood jo hai woh makhlooq ke paas nahi hai. Wujood makhlooq ko diya jaata hai. Aur yeh sifaat wujood ke tawaabe hain toh yeh sifaat us wujood se us ke paas hain taabe ban kar. Warna bande ke paas kuch nahi.

Hadhrat Mujaddid Alf Saani R.A. ne farmaaya ke "tamaam makhlooqaat ki haqeeqatein 'Adamaat hain. Makhlooqaat saari M'adoomaat hain".  Jo mujaddid 100 saal mein aata hai woh Mujaaddid-e-Sadi hota hai aur jo 1000 saal mein aata hain woh Mujaddid-e-Alfee hota hai. Un 'adamaat par Allah paak ke Wujood ke saaye padte hain, Allah ki sifaat ke saaye padte hain. Toh yeh makhlooqaat Uqoos hain saare, Zilaal hain sab (Zill saaye ku kehte hain). Magar cheezon ke saaye mein yeh baat hoti hai ke us mein kasaafat nahi hoti (thick pana nahi hota), hiss nahi hoti. Lekin Allah paak ne apne sifaat ka jo saaya daala hai toh us mein hiss aur kasaafat paida kee hai apne qudrat se is liye use pakda jaa sakta hai. Warna asal yeh hai ke bande ke paas apna kuch nahi hai. Mayyit hain ham sab, adam hain, murde hain (Innaka mayyit wa innahum mayyitoon). Ab jab murda hai toh ilm bhi nahi hai, qudrat bhi nahi, iraadah bhi nahi, samaat bhi nahi, basaarat bhi nahi, kalaam bhi nahi hai. Kuch bhi nahi hai. Toh is liye is haqeeqat ku pehchaan kar apne aap ku is istehzaar mein rakhna ke main kuch nahi. 

Kyun ke yeh sifat jab banti hai toh dar asal yahi sifat jo hai na woh Allah paak ke awaamir ku apne upar laagu karne mein aur Huzoor S.A.W. ku apne upar laagu karne mein buniyaadi kirdaar adaa karti hai. Aap kuch nahi hain toh kisi ka kuch le sakte. Aap khud kuch hain toh aap nahi lenge, us mein apna milaa lenge - apni aqal, apni samajh, apni marzi wagaira. Jab tawaazu ki haqeeqat bande ku haasil hoti hai toh phir yeh akhlaaq waale shobe zinda hona shuru hote hain. Tawaazu hi hai jo baat karne ka dhang bataayegi, tawaazu hi hai jo bartaaw ka dhang bataayegi, Tawaazu hi hoi hai jo kis mauqe par kis se kya cheez ka sulook hona chahiye woh waazeh karegi. Asal tawaazu ban na hai pehle. Tawaazu bane, Ikhlaas bane, Shuja'at bane, Sakhawat bane, Haya bane, Murawwat bane, Fatwat bane, Sabr bane, Shukr bane, Tafweez bane, Tasleem bane, Raza bil Qaza bane. Yeh sifaat hain. Yeh eemaan ki sifaat kehlaati hain. Aur yeh chain hai matlab ek hoga toh doosre mein uska asar aayega, doosra hoga toh teesre mein uska asar aayega aise hi ek ki nafi hogi toh doosre ki nafi hogi, doosreki nafi hogi toh teesre ki is tarah yeh chain hai yaani mile jhule hain. 

Tawaazu ki haqeeqat yeh hai ke apne ku kisi se afzal nahi samajhna hatta ke kutte, billi aur khinzeer se bhi acha nahi samajhna. Sawaal yeh paida hota hai ke ham oh insaan hain. Ham kaise in jaanwaron se afzal nahi samajh sakte? Yahan yeh samajhna hai ke afzal ka taalluq Allah paak ke qurb wo raza se hai. Allah paak ki qurb wo raza Aakhirat mein hi khulne waale hai. Is se pehle nahi khulne waali. Jab tak woh decide nahi hua ke aap Allah paak ke pasandeedah hain ya nahi hain tab tak kisi se bhi afzal nahi ho sakte hatta ke kutte, billi se bhi nahi khinzeer se bhi nahi. Kyun ke kutte, billi, aur khinzeer se Allah paak naaraaz nahi hote. Kutta toh kutta hai, Allah paak ke makhlooqaat mein se ek makhlooq hai. Us ke liye na Jannat hai na Jahannum. Koonu turaaba. Matti hojao toh sab ku matti bana diya jaayega. Billi ku bhi aise hi hai. Khinzeer ku bhi aise hi hai. Allah paak ke muqarrab hone ka taalluq Aakhirat mein hi khul ne waala hai aur jab tak woh nahi khulega tab tak yeh nahi kaha jaa sakta ke ham unse ache hain yaa nahi. Aur ehtamaalan, ham apne ku kisi Kaafir se bhi acha nahi samajh sakte ke ho sakta hai ke us ko eemaan ki taufee ho jaaye aur ho sakta hai ke eemaan salb ho jaaye idhar. 

Tawaazu ke muqaabile mein jo hota hai woh "Kibr" hai. Aur sifaat ki khusoosiyat yeh hai ke jab tak us ke muqaabil se daal ke aap muwaazinah nahi karein ge us waqt tak woh poori cheez khulti nahi. Aur "kibr" ki haqeeqat hai doosre se apne aap ku afzal samajhna. Agar doosre ka taqaabul na daala jaaye aur apne ku acha samjha jaaye toh yeh "Ujub" hai. Aur Ujub bhi gunaahe kabeerah hai aur kibr bhi gunaahe kabeerah hai. Ek aadmi ujub mein hai aur ek aadmi sharaabi hai toh Allah ke paas donon mein koi faraq nahi hai. Bandon ke paas go bahut faraq hai. Yeh bhi gunaahe kabeerah hai woh bhi gunaahe kabeerah hai. Yeh bhi galat hai woh bhi galat hai. Apne ku acha samajh hi nahi sakte. Acha toh woh hai jisku Allah paak acha bolenge. Jab bolenge tab hukum lagega. Us se pehle toh lag hi nahi sakta. Fa laa tuzakku anfusakum - yaani Apne ku acha mat bolo. Huwa a'alamu bimanittaqa - yaani us ko maalum hai ke kaun muttaqi hai. Huwa a‘alamu bikum iz ansha-akum minal arzi wa iz antum ajinnatun fii butuuni ummahaatikum - yaani wo tum ko us waqt se jaanta hai jab tum apni maa ke pet mein ho. Allah paak farmaa rehe hain ke "Jab yeh nutfa gaya tha, jab yeh beenj pahuncha tha toh yeh beenj ki qualiy kya hai yeh ham ku pehle se maaloom hai" [Surah An-Najm Aayah 32].  Har insaan ek beenj ki shakal mein hai aur woh beenj ke apne sifaat hain, uski apni qualities hain toh woh qualities jo jis beenj ki hain Allah paak ku maaloom hai ke woh kya hai. Toh is liye kisi ku yeh kehne ka haq nahi hai ke woh kaisa hai. Yeh toh Allah paak wahan jaane par hi bataayenge ke kaun kaisa hai. Ujub karne ki gunjaaish nahi. Kisi doosre se apne aap ku acha samajhne ki gunjaaish nahi. Aalim se toh bahut alag baat hai, Daa'ee se toh bahut alag baat hai, Aabid se toh bahut alag baat hai, Musalmaan se toh bahut alag baat hai kisi se apne ku acha nahi samajh sakte. Jannat mein daakhil nahin ho sakta woh aadmi jiske dil mein raai ke daane ke baraabar bhi kibr hoga. 

Imaam Gazaali R.A. ne is mauzu par kalaam karte huwe badi ajeeb baatein bayaan farmaa'een. Tabsirah jo ham karte hain logon ka hatta ke (yahan tak ke) bure logon ka (maslan yeh kehna ke "Kya haal hogaya logon ka"). Farmaaya ke is ka maqsad kya hai? Kyun bol rein aap yeh baat? Yeh Kibr hai. Yeh Imaam Gazaali R. A. ka jumla hai. Atagfirullah! Astagfirullah! jo padte hain logon ke saamne toh logon ke saamne istigfaar padke apne ku is se baraa-at zaahir karne se mansha kya hai? Yeh pooch rein Imaam Gazaali R. A. Matlab aisi baareek baareek cheezon mein paayi jaati hai woh. Har jagah hona zaroori nahi hai. Har istigfaar padne waale ke liye zaroori nahi hai woh lekin yeh jo istigfaar padha jaa raha hai us ka muharrik (uske peeche wajah kya hai) kya hai yeh talaash karna. Yeh jo tabsirah kiya jaa raha hai us ka muharrik talaash karna chahiye. Hamse mashwara nai kiya gaya, hame invite nai kiya gaya, ham jo ahmiyat nai dee gayi, woh aisa kyun karta hai?, woh waisa kyun karta hai?, us ne aisa kyun kaha? yeh jitni cheezein hoti hain na in saari cheezon ke peeche kya hai aap talaash karein ge toh "kibr" milega.

Aur "Aajizi" mein hota yeh hai ke main kya aur meri haisiyat kya. Buzurgon ki aadat yeh thi ke jab unko koi bura bolta toh farmaate the keh sahi toh bol raha hai. Aug agar bhala bole toh farmaate ke woh bichaara pehchaanta nahi mujhe isliye bol raha hai. Hadhrat Maulana Rasheed Ahmad Gangohi R. A. ke paas Hadhrat Maulana Haaji Imdaadullah Sahab Muhaajir-e-Makki R. A. ne kehla bheja tha ke Raheed Ahmad se kaho ke kabhi khat nahi likhte aur apne haalaat ki ittela nahi dete. Kya baat hai? Sheikh ko toh haalaat ki ittela dete rehna chahiye. Hadhrat Gangohi ne khat likha aur farmaaya keh Hadhrat haalaat ki ittela toh woh de jisko haalaat hote hon kuch. Mujhe aate hi kya hain, mere haalaat hi kya hain ke main haalaat ki ittela doon kuch. Phir us ke baad mein likha ke albatta jo baat main mahsoos karta hoon woh yeh hai ke kisi ke taareef karne par khushi nai hori aur kisi ke mazammat karne par tabeeyat par kuch takleef nai hori yaani koi buraayi kar de toh bura nai lagra aur koi taareef karde toh acha bhi nai lagra. Jab yeh khat pahunch toh Hadhrat Haaji sahab ne jawaab likha aur farmaaya ke "Tauheed-e-Af'aali" mubaarak ho. Asal yeh haal jo hai yeh Tauheed-e-Af'aali ka hota hai. Tauheed-e-Af'aali ke andar bandah itna mutawaazeh hojaata hai, itni fana-iyat us mein aati hai ke acha aur bura (wal qadri khairihi wa sharrihi minallahi taala) Allah ki taraf se hai yeh istihzaar rehta hai.

Feyl jo hain woh harkat ke andar hota hai. Harkat mein faail Allah ku dekhna. Ashiya mein jo gair mutaharrik ashia hain us mein khaliq aur maalik Allah ku dekhna aur jis shay ke andar jo harkat paayi jaati hai us harkat ka faail Allah ku dekhna. Ab woh harkat dost ki ho ke dushman ki ho, bolne se ho ke bartaaw se ho, apne se ho ke paraaye se ho, woh harkat fan ki ho, woh harkat light ki ho, woh harkat gaadi ki ho, woh harkat paani ki ho, woh harkat darakhton ki ho, hawa ki ho us ke peeche Allah paak ku dekhne lag jaana yeh Tauheed-e-Af'aali hota hai. 

Hamare buzurg yeh chahte hain ke jab Aadmi Allah ke raaste mein (jamaat mein) nikle toh woh Ikraam par mehnat kare, Akhlaaq par mehnat kare. Ikraam ka lafz khaas maslihat se bola jaata hai. Ikraam ki buniyaad kya hai? Kyun karna hai kisi ka Ikraam? Kyun ke woh aap se acha hai is liye karna hai. Ek martaba Hadhratji Inaamul Hasan sahab R. A. ne 6 number par baat ki. Us mein unhone Ikraam par badi pyaari baat ki. Unhone farmaaya ke Ikraam ke do hisse hain - ek Husn-e-Muaashirat aur ek Husn-e-Akhlaaq. Farmaaya ke Husn-e-Muashirat yeh hai ke aap se kisi ko takleef na pahunche. Kisi ku takleef kisi nau'iyat ke na pahunche bas yahi hai Husn-e-Muashirat. Na baat mein, na bartaaw mein, na dhang mein kisi cheez mein kisi ko takleef na pahunche aur iska poora ehtemaam bande ko ho. Kyun ke jab ehtemaam paaya jaata hai, fikr paayi jaati hai toh takleef nahi pahunch ti hai aur agar pahunchi bhi toh maamooli pahunch ti hai. Aur agar pahunch bhi gayi aur maamooli pahunch gayi toh saamne waala maazoor qaraar deta hai ke bhai fikr toh karta tha na pahunchane ki lekin gair ikhtiyaari taur par hogaya. Jab ehtemaam aur fikr nahi paaya jaata hai, tawajjo nahi paayi jaati toh bahut pahunch ti hai aur badi pahunch ti hai aur jo pahunch ti hai woh saamne waale ku azeeyat deti hai. Farmaaya ke Ikraam mein Husn-e-Muashirat yeh hai ke ham se doosre ku takleef na pahunche. Aur doosra hissa Ikraam-e-Muslim ka Husn-e-Akhlaaq hai aur us ki haqeeqat yeh hai ke aap se doosre ku aaraam pahunch jaaye. Aur farmaaya ke Husn-e-Muashirat "Farz" hai aur Husn-e-Akhlaaq "Kamaal" hai (Kamaalaat mein se hai). Yeh Insaan ke kamaal mein se hai, fazeelat mein se hai ke aap se doosre ku aaraam mil jaaye baqiyaa aap se doosre ku takleef na ho yeh toh faraaiz mein se hai. 

Ab yeh takleef pahunch ne ke andar bahut si nazaakatein paayi jaati hain malan ek Aadmi lamba bayaan kar rah hai, is se takleef pahunch jaati baith ne waale ko. Huzoor-e-Paak S.A.W. ki shaksiyat aur Sahabah jaise ushhaaq (aashiqon) ki shaksiyat jo marmitne waale qurbaan hone waale in ke darmiyaan bhi Aap S.A.W. rozaana waaz nahi farmaate the. Hadhrat Abdullah ibn Mas'ood R.A. farmaate hain ke Huzoor-e-Paak S.A.W. baat karne mein naaga farmaa diya karte the uktaane ke darr se ke saamne waale bore na hon. Sahaabah R.A. ke bore na hone ke darr se Aap S.A.W. baat ko mukhtasar farmaate the aur naaga farmaate the. Aur hamaare paas is ka ehtemaam hi nahi hai keh ek sahab ne bayaan khatam kiya toh doosre ne tashkeel ke naam se dobaara bayaan shuru kar diya aur teesre ne kisi aur taqaaze ke naam se koi aur baat shuru kar di aur baithne waalon ku takleef pahunch ri. Baaz waqt hota yeh hai ke Aadmi yeh sonch ta hai ab isee waqt mein saari Hidaayat inku pilaa doon ga. Jitna waqt liya jaa raha yaan diya jaara us mein baat khatam kar dena chahiye. Agar aap 10 min izaafa kar diye toh kya poora deen pesh kar denge us 10 min mein. Jitna waqt diya jaara us mein jitni baat ho sakti thi us mein khatam kar dena chahiye. Sirf isee mein nahi, yeh toh ek misaal hai. 

Yeh takleef pahunchaane ka jo nizaam hai yeh kayee cheezon mein hota hai. Yeh asal mein Juz-i-yaat hote hain. Aur ek misaal yeh dee jaa sakti hai ke wuzu karne waala Aadmi baazu baitha aur zor se khad khad khakaar raha hai. Zaahir hai badi azeeyat pahunch ti hai is se. Azeeyat pahunchne ke furu'aat bahut ajeeb khism ke hote hain. Jaise galat parking ka masla hai, yeh kitna takleef pahunchata hai logon ku. Aur bahut zyada badhhe rahein (bhondapan, bedhangapan) koi yeh bhi takleef pahunchata hai. Islaam badhhe rahne ku pasand nahi karta. Saadgi ko toh pasand karta hai, safaayi sutraayi wagaira lekin badhhe rahne ku pasand nahi karta. Baaz waqt Namaaz mein bilkul thodi jagah mein koi ghus jaata hai yaan koi bulaa leta hai is se poori namaaz mein takleef pahunch ti rehti hai aas paas waalon ku. Namaaz mein touch karne ka koi hukum nahi hai. Yeh hai hi nahi ke iska payr isku lagao is ka payr usku lagao. Na kandhe lagana hai na payr, lagaana hai hi nahi ek doosre ku. Seedh (line) mein khadhe rahna hai aur beech mein gap nai rahna hai. Beech mein gap nai rehne ka matlab yeh hai ke itna close ho ke mazeed koi Aadmi ki gunjaayish na ho ke woh mauqa dekh ke ghus sake. Warna touch karna Namaaz mein yeh nahi hai Islaam mein. Jo Aadmi ku khushu-wo-khuzu se Namaaz padne ki aadat hai us se poocho aap ke jab koi touch karta hai toh kya hota hai. Hum ku toh aadat hi nahi hai na is wajah se yeh masla hota hai. Hadhrat Anwar Shah Kashmeeri R.A. ne farmaaya ke yeh bid'at hai yeh ek doosre ke payr ku touch karna aur farmaaya ke yeh impossible hai. Siwaaye naanch ne ke aur kuch nai kar sakte aap. Kabhi aisa kar rein kabhi aisa. Ruku mein jaate waqt aisa. Sajde mein jaate waqt waqisa, khade rahe waqt kuch aur aisa thode hi hai. Farmaaya ke azeeyat pahunchane waale jo juz-i-yaat (specifics) hote hain woh beshumaar hote hain. Aur woh baareek baareek hote hain jahan 'Aadmi mahsoos bhi nahi kar paata. Aur ek misaal yeh hai ke farz Namaaz ke baad sunnat ke liye ek dam khade hogaye. Koi andaaza hi nahi ke koi jaana chah rein ya nahi. Ek Aadmi hai us ku jaldi hai woh sunnat nai pad sakta, ghar jaake padna chah ra ya nahi padna chah ra kisi wajah se, aap kaun hote us ku pack karne waale. Chaar rak'aat ke baad chanda shuru kar diya taraaweeh mein, lambi Namaaz padha di, lambi lambi Dua kar le rein yeh sab azeeyat pahunchane waali cheezein hain. Hadhrat Maulan Imran Khan sahab R. A. farmaathe the ke lambi dua ka haq us ku hai jo tanhaayi mein bhi lambi dua ka aadi ho. Aur hamaare paas yeh hai ke khatam hi nahi hori ek baat se. Bichaaron ke haath thak gaye lekin dua hai ke khatam hi nahi hori. Bataana yeh hai ke Takleef pahunchaane ke juz-i-yaat bahut hote hain. Hadhrat Maulana Imram Khan Sahab R.A. farmaaya karte the ke jab Maulana Yusuf sahab paun ghante ki dua karte the toh tum logon ku maalum hona chahiye ke unke paun ghante ki dua mukhtasar hoti thi. Maine apne aankhon se un ko teen se saadhe teen ghante tak umooman karte huwe dekha hai. Toh jo aadmi tanhai mein 3 - 3 1/2 ghante dua karta hai toh woh agar majmue mein 3/4 ghanta dua karta hain toh woh mujhtasar hi hai. Aisi bahut si kuz-i-yaat hain. Toh yeh juz-i-yaat hoti hain yeh juz-i-yaat ke andar dimaag kaam karna hota hai asal ke kaun se amal se takleef pahunch ti hai aur kaunse amal se nahi. Ikraam-e-Muslim ke ek hisse mein jo Husn-e-Muashirat ka hai us mein yeh hai ke ham se kisi ku takleef na pahunche aur yeh Faraaiz mein se hai. Aur doosra hissa jo Husn-e-Akhlaaq ka hai woh yeh hai ke hamaari zaat se doosre ku faaidah pahunch jaaye. Yeh Makaarim-e-Akhlaaq mein se hai, yeh Kamaalaat mein se hai. 

Tauheed-e-Af'aali [mukhtasar] aur us ka haal

Hadhrat Maulana Rasheed Ahmad Gangohi R. A. ke paas Hadhrat Maulana Haaji Imdaadullah Sahab Muhaajir-e-Makki R. A. ne kehla bheja tha ke Raheed Ahmad se kaho ke kabhi khat nahi likhte aur apne haalaat ki ittela nahi dete. Kya baat hai? Sheikh ko toh haalaat ki ittela dete rehna chahiye. Hadhrat Gangohi ne khat likha aur farmaaya keh Hadhrat haalaat ki ittela toh woh de jisko haalaat hote hon kuch. Mujhe aate hi kya hain, mere haalaat hi kya hain ke main haalaat ki ittela doon kuch. Phir us ke baad mein likha ke albatta jo baat main mahsoos karta hoon woh yeh hai ke kisi ke taareef karne par khushi nai hori aur kisi ke mazammat karne par tabeeyat par kuch takleef nai hori yaani koi buraayi kar de toh bura nai lagra aur koi taareef karde toh acha bhi nai lagra. Jab yeh khat pahunch toh Hadhrat Haaji sahab ne jawaab likha aur farmaaya ke "Tauheed-e-Af'aali" mubaarak ho. Asal yeh haal jo hai yeh Tauheed-e-Af'aali ka hota hai. Tauheed-e-Af'aali ke andar bandah itna mutawaazeh hojaata hai, itni fana-iyat us mein aati hai ke acha aur bura (wal qadri khairihi wa sharrihi minallahi taala) Allah ki taraf se hai yeh istihzaar rehta hai.


Feyl jo hain woh harkat ke andar hota hai. Harkat mein faail Allah ku dekhna. Ashiya mein jo gair mutaharrik ashia hain us mein khaliq aur maalik Allah ku dekhna aur jis shay ke andar jo harkat paayi jaati hai us harkat ka faail Allah ku dekhna. Ab woh harkat dost ki ho ke dushman ki ho, bolne se ho ke bartaaw se ho, apne se ho ke paraaye se ho, woh harkat fan ki ho, woh harkat light ki ho, woh harkat gaadi ki ho, woh harkat paani ki ho, woh harkat darakhton ki ho, hawa ki ho us ke peeche Allah paak ku dekhne lag jaana yeh Tauheed-e-Af'aali hota hai.

Aqwaal ul Jamaal - Khanqah-e-Jamaalia I'tikaaf Summary

الحمدللہ اعتکاف اچھا گزرا. انفرادی اور اجتماعی امور میں برابر لگنے کی توفیق ہوئی. اس اعتکاف سے جو میں لے جا رہا ہوں وہ یے ہیں کے

جب بندے کو کوئی تعریف لگتی نہی تو عجب کس بات کا اور کیسی حب جاہ

پالنے والے رب اور پلنے والے سب

جو بھی خرچ کیا جا رہا ہے اس کو عذاب
کے خانے میں جانے سے بچانا

صراط مستقیم کا جو راستہ ہے وہ یہ ہے کے مامورات الٰہی کو بجا لانا اور منہیات سے بچنا چاہے یے مامورات وہ منہیات امور ظاہری سے متعلق ہو یا باطنی سے

غیر اختیاری امور کے درپے نہ رہنا. اگر کسی ناگوار سمجھی جانے والی ہالت میں گرفتار ہو جائے تو مناسب جائز تدابیر کرنا جس میں دعا بھی شامل ہے. اور جو فیصلہ ہو اس پے راضی رہنا. مقصود پر نظر رکھنا اور وہ رضاء الٰہی ہے

الله پاک سے محبوبیت مانگنا اور یے مانگنا کے ناگواری کی اس مبارک ہالت کو خوشگواری کی مبارک ہالت سے تبدیل کریں

قوت عقلیہ، قوت جالبہ یا شہویہ، اور قوت دافعہ یا غظبیہ کا صحیح استعمال کرنا. یے اخلاقیات کی درستی کی بنیاد ہے

دعا کو. آپ کا ایک ادنا خادم
محمد مطیع الرحمٰن

Aqwaal ul Jamaal - Dhikr ke teen pehlu

Dhikr insaan ke haq mein zindagi hai aur Ghaflat insaan ke haq mein maut hai. 

Sha'ar: Tera wasl meri hayaat hai, Tera fasl meri mamaat hai (Hadhrat Maseehul Umaat R.A.)

Sulook ki duniya mein Allah paak ke Dhikr ki gair maamooli ahmiyat hai.

Sha'ar of Khwaja Azeez-ul-Hasan R.A. - Kaamiyaami toh kaam se hogi naa ke Husn-e-Kalaam se hogi, Zikr ke iltezaam se hogi aur Fikr ke ahtemaam se hogi.

Dhikr ke teen pehlu hain.

Pehla pehlu Dhikr ka:
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Zikr-e-Lisaani: Zabaan ku hamesha Allah ki yaad mein mashgool rakhna - iski do shaklein hai - muta'yyana aur gair muta'yyana.

Gair Muta'yyana: Majaalis, Bayaanaat etc

Muta'yyana: Qur'an-e-Majeed ki tilaawat, Masnoon Duaon ka ehtemaam, Durood Shareef ka ehtemaam, Auraad woh Wazaif etc. 

Silsile ka Dhikr: 
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Is mein Dhikr ki jo soorat hai woh soorat ilaaj ke liye hai aur ek tadbeer ke taur par hai. Uske zareeye se dil mein Allah ki yaad khu bithane aur jamaane mein madad milti hai. Apne zahan, apne fikr aur apne tasawwur ku sahi rukh dene ke liye aur buniyaadi makhsadi cheez ki taraf mutawajjeh karne ke liye koi tasawwur diya jaata hai. Silsile ka dhikr bataur e Tadbeer woh Ilaaj diya jaata hai aur kiya jaata hai.

Masalan Allah ke gair (Gairullah ki muhabbat) ki muhabbat ku nikaalne ka ek aham kaam hai. Gairullah ki muhabbat saari buraayiyon ki jadd hai.

Pehla hissa dhikr ka
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Laa Ilaaha Illallah (200 times) - 

For mubtadi - Allah ka gair Ibaadat ke laayiq nahi. Allah hi ibaadat ke laayiq hai.

For others - Nahi hai koi bhi muhabbat ke laayaq siwaaye Allah ke. Laa Ilaaha ke zariye se gairullah ki muhabbat dl se nikaal rahe hain aur Illallah ke zariye Allah ki muhabat dil mein raasiq ho rahi hai iska tasawwur karna. 

Is mein jis cheez ki muhabbat khaas dil mein raasiq hai uske nikaal ne ka aur Allah ki muhabbat dil mein jamaane ka tasawwuf bhi kiya jaa sakta hai.

Doosra hissa dhikr ka
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Illallah (400 imes) -

Allah ta'ala hi Faail-e-Haqiqi hai (Karne waali zaat Allah ki) is ke dhyaan ke saath kiya jaaye - Tauheed-e-Faili
Result: Gair maamooli tasalli ke saamaan
1. Unki jaanib se jab aisi baat pesh aayi hai toh unki koi hikmat hogi, maslihat hogi. Mere haq mein hosakta hai ke yeh hi behtar ho.
2. Bojh woh takleef woh ranj par Allah ke sawaab ka shaoor

Tauheed-e-Faili ke unwaan mein do pehlu hai
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1. Khair wala kaam - Fazl ka nateeja
2. Sharr wala kaam - Adl ka nateeja _ kotaahi ki wajeh se bhi hosakta hai
Hamesha Fazl ku maangna chahiye, Adl nahi. Sufi sahab farmaate the ke Allah ke fazl ke bhikaari bane raho.

Teesra hissa dhikr ka
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Allahu Allah (600 times) - 

Allah hi sifaat-e-kamalia se muttasif hain aur unhi ka noor kaayenaat mein jalwagar hai aur woh mujhe muheet hai aur mein noor-e-haq mein aisa hi dooba hua hun jaise machli paani mein doobi hui hoti hai

Allah kehne ke liye bhi Allah chahiye - Hayaat, Ilm, Irada, Khudrat (khuwwat) yeh sab chahiye Allah kehne ke liye aur yeh sifaat hamare zaati nahi hai ataayi hai (amaanat hai). Allah ke diye hue hain aur tasalul ke saath hai. Jab tak dein tab tak hai aur jab na dein toh nahi.

Sha'ar: Baaraan-e-rehmat ham par hai har dum sada teri khuda, Har aan hai har aan hai hum par ataa teri khuda.

Paas-e-Anfaas: Dhkr ka ek tareeqa. Paas ke maane hai "lehaaz" aur Anfaas "Nafs" ki jama hai. Paas-e-Anfaas ka matlab hua "Saanson mein (Dhikr ka) lehaaz". Yaane saans lete waqt aur chodte waq Allah ku yaad karna.

Sulook woh tarbiyat ke silsile mein jitna kaam diya jaaye usku lete rehne ka ahtemaam karna hi karna hai 
- Hadhrat farmaaye ke Uqli mein sar de diye toh musssal se kya darna.

Dhikr ke shuru mein dua
 - Aye Allah aapka kalima aapke taufeeq se aapki muhabbat dil mein bithaane keliye dohraane ka iraada kar raha hun. Aap ise qubool farma kar mere dil ku apne gair se paak farmaa deejiye aur apni muhabbat mere dil mein paida farmaa deejiye.

Dhikr ke qatam par dua
 - Dhikr mukammal karte waqt yeh kehna chahiye keh aye Allah paak aap ka mubaarak naam lete huwe rehne ke silsile ku rok ne ku jee nahi chah raha hai magar choon ke aap ke doosre bhi ahkaam hai. Un ahkaam ke poora karne ke liye main is silsila-e-dhikr ku mauqoof kar raha hu.

Doosra pehlu Dhikr ka:
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Zikr-e-Haqiqi: Har mauqe par unki marzi kya hai aur uske mauqe par unki marzi ke mutaabiq kaam anjaam dena.

Result: Har galat amal se bachna aasaan hojaata

Malfooz of Hadhrat Jalalabaadi: Kisi bhi kaam ku karne se pehle zara ruk jao, dekho pehle phir amal karo.

Sha'ar: Qalbul ahmaqi fee feehi wa Lisaanul aaqili fee qalbihi (Bewaqoof aadmi ka dil mu mein hota hai aur samajhdaar aadmi ka muh dil mein hota hai).

Taqwe ki tafseelaat - Parhezgaari - Kisi bhi baat ke karne se pehle, kisi bhi kaam ke karne se pehle aur Jism ke kisi bhi uzw ke istemaal karne se pehle Allah ki marzi kya hai woh dekhna chahiye. 

Misaal: Aise zindagi se guzarna jaise khaar daar darakhton ke darmiyaan se guzra jaata hai.

Sha'ar: Hai bahut pecheedah raah-e-zindagi, Ho bahut hoshiyaar reh-rawaan-e-zindagi.

Qaul: Buzurg yeh bhi kehte hain ke jo yahan se taqwe ke saath guzar gaya woh Pul Siraat par se aasaani se guzar jaata.

Teesra pehlu Dhikr ka:
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Ek khaas maqaam ke haasil karne ke liye (jo pehle ke mazmoon se mila hua hai):


Teen maraatib hain (Istelaahi haiseeyat se):
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Maqaam-e-Saalihiyat: Mahboobiyat ka pehla darja
Maqaam-e-Shahaadat: Mahboobiyat ka doosra (aage ka) darja
Maqaam-e-Siddeeqiyat: Mahboobiyat ka teesra (aage se aage ka) darja

NOTE: Maqaam-e-Nubuwwat ka darwaza band hai. Ambiya Saaliheen, Shuhada woh Siddeeqeen bhi hote hain.

Malfooz of Hadhrat Maseehul Ummat R.A.: Allah ke pasandeeda bandon ki 4 jamaatein hain (Jamaat-e-Saaliheen, Jamaat-e-Shuhada, Jamaat-e-Siddeeqeen, Jamaat-e-Ambiya). Pehli jamaat (Jamaat-e-Saaliheen) mein daakhila lena farz hai aur chohti jamaat (Jamaat-e-Ambiya) mein daakhila band hai. Aur doosri woh teesri jamaat mein daakhila lena fazeelath ka hai.

Jis cheez par nigaah pade uske Khaaliq aur Maalik Allah hone ku mustahzar karna. Nazar toh cheez par pad rahi hai lekin maalik woh khaaliq Allah hone ki fikr hai. Itna mashq karna ke koi bhi cheez saamne aayi toh uske Allah khaaliq woh maalik hai yeh yaad aajaana. Kaayenaat ki har cheez ku Allah ki yaad karne ka saba banana. Jis cheez par nazar pade Allah hi uske khaaliq hai Allah hi uske maalik hai. Hamari nazar parwardigaar ki khabar dono ku jama kar lena.

Sufi sahab ka malfooz: Jo cheezein auron ke liye Allah se ghaflat ka sabab hain woh hi cheezein hamare liye (Allah ke Fazl se)Allah ki yaad ka zariya hain.

Sirf sabaq ka yaad karna nahi uska asar zindagi mein bhi aana. Yaane anfus woh aafaaq ki zheezon ke istemaal mein apni marzi nahi chalana balke Allah ki marzi se kaam lena. Sirf yaad rehne ku Malika-e-yaad daasht kehte hain. 

Aur jab aadmi amal aisa (Allah ke marzi ke mutaabiq) karta hai toh  woh amal Amal-e-Saalih kehlaata hai.

Hamara Allah kehna Labbaik-e-Khuda hai

Ek soofi darvesh ek raat bahut hee ikhlaas se Allah ka naam ke raha tha hatta ke is pur khuloos dhikr se is ke lab sheereen ho gaye.

Shaitaan ne kaha aye soofi khaamosh bhi ho tu be faidah dhikr ki kasrat kar raha hai. Allah ki taraf se to koi jawaab tujhe milta nahin phir yak tarfah muhabbat ki peeng badhane se kya faidah? Shaitaan ki is pur-fareb baaton se yeh soofi shikastah-dil aur afsurdah ho kar soo gaya aur dhikr ku multavee kar diya.

Khwaab mein dekhta hai ke Hadhrat Khizr A.S. tashreef laaye hain aur daryaaft kar rahe hain ke dhikr se kyun ghaflat ki. Soofi ne kaha ke Allah ki taraf se labbaik ki aawaaz nahin aati jis se dil mein khayal aaya ke hamaara dhikr qubool nahin.

Hadhrat Khizr A.S. ne kaha ke tujh ko Allah ne paigaam bheja hai aur farmaaya hai ke mere is bande se keh do ke:

Aye bande tera Allah kehna hi mera labbaik hai yaani jab tera pehla Allah qubool ho jaata hai tab doosri baar tujhe Allah kehne ki taufeeq hoti hai. Pas yeh doosri baar Allah kehna meri taraf se labbaik hai aur aye bande tera yeh niyaaz aur mere ishq mein yeh soz-wo-dard sab mera paigaam hai.

Aur aye bande meri muhabbat mein teri yeh tadbeerein aur dhikr-wo-shugl aur mehnatein sab hamaari taraf se jazb-wo-kashish ka 'aks hain. Kisee ne khoob kaha hai ke

"Meri talab bhi kisee ke karam ka sadqah hai,
Qadam yeh uth-te nahin hain uthaaye jaate hain."

Aye bande tera khauf aur tera ishq meri zaat se mera hee in'aam hai aur meri meherbaani wo muhabbat ki kashish hai aur tere har baar "Ya Rabb, Ya Rabb aur Ya Allah" ki pukaar mein mera labbaik bhi shaamil hai. Yaani jab tu "Ya Allah" kehta hai toh meri yeh aawaaz bhi wahin maujood hai ke haazir hoon main aye mere bande (Fa-innee qareeb).

Jaahil ki jaan is dhikr-wo-dua se mahroom hai aur un ko "Ya Rabb" kehne ki taufeeq hee nahin.

Faidah: Dhakireen ke liye is hikaayat mein badi khush-khabri hai. Pas dhikr ke waqt yeh tasawwur bhi rakha jaaye ke hamaara pehla "Allah" qubool hota hai jab hamaari zabaan se dobaarah "Allah" nikalta hai aur yahee dobaarah "Allah" nikalna pehle "Allah" ki qubooliyat ki 'alaamat hai.

Mubaarak ho dhakireen ke liye yeh in'aam. Allah t'ala ham sab ko apne dhikr ki ta-aakhri saans taufeeq bakhshein. Aameen.

Isti'aanat ke Tareeqe

Insaani zindagi ki paanch haalatein hain. Jitne insaan hain sab par yeh haalaat guzarte hain. Insaan kisee mulk ka rehne waala ho, kisee qaum ka ho, kisee mazhab ka maan ne waala ho, kisee jam'aat yaan firqe se t'alluq rakhta ho, in haalaat ke wurood (utarne) se koi bach nahin sakta. Sab par yeh haalaat taari hote hain.'Aam insaan ho ke baadshah, faqeer ho ke ameer, musalmaan ho ke kaafir, neyk ho ke bad, aurat ho ke mard, bacha ho ke boodha, sab inhee paanch haalaat mein zindagi guzaar rahe hain:


1. Haajaat wo Muraadaat  
    is haalat mein dua karne ka hukm hai

2. Haalat-e-Gunah
    is haalat mein taubah karne ka hukm 
    hai

3. Haalat-e-Kaarobaar  
    is haalat mein tawakkul karne ka 
    hukm hai

4. Haalat-e-Museebat 
    is haalat mein sabr karne ka hukm hai

5. Haalat-e-N'emat  
    is haalat mein shukr karne ka hukm 
    hai



Dua, Taubah, Tawakkul, Sabr aur Shukr - yahee hain isti'aanat ke tareeqe.

Aqwaal ul Jamaal - Ma'eeyat-e-'Aam and Ma'eeyat-e-Khaas

Allah SWT said of which the  mafhoom is that when 2 people sit and start whispering with each other into their ears , Allah SWT is the third one listening to their whispers, talks and discussions.
Likewise at various respective places Allah SWT said that no one is alone and Alllah Paak is with them always at all times.

But yet Allah SWT has said 
Ma'al muttaqeen and Ma'as Sabireen.

When Allah SWT is always with everyone at all times then why Allah SWT said specially this that 'I am with Sabireen and I am with muttaqeen etc.

Hadhrat Shah SB DB said that the first ma'iyyat which is common for everyone is in regard with takweeni nizam. In which 'wa huwa ma'akum aina ma kuntum '. Aayat e Paak is understood.

But the ma'iyyat with special mentioned people like Sabireen , muttaqeen etc is with Allah Paak's love , radhaa , in'aam, help.

Some people are with us but their presence is not adored or acknowledged or recognised but there are few who are with us with their love, care, endurance etc which make their companionship more worthy and special.
So this the difference between being with everyone at all time irrespective of who they are and being with Sabireen , muttaqeen , muhsineen etc.

- Taken from Dars e Tasawwuf by Shah Jamaal Sahab DB in silsilaekamalia.com.

Khud shanasi Haq shanasi (Nazam)

Ma'arifat ka hai yahi awwal sabaq
Zaat do hain - Neest (non existent) Bandah Hast (existent) Haq

Saabit-uz-Zaat aur Masloob-ul-Wujood (Saabituzzaat fil Ilm Masloobul Wujood meaning Zaat ke aitebaar se Ilm e Illahi mein saabit hai aur Wujood ke aitebaar se manfi hai, khaali-ul-wujood hai)
Bandah hai Bood ( man is being/existent ) wo Nabood is ka namood (Nabood means "not" and Namood means "appearance" so in this case it is non-existent is it's appearance)

'Aarifon ne ki hai yun ta'areef-e-zaat
Jis se hon mansoob Asma' wo Sifaat

Bolta, Sunta, Samajta, Dekhta,
Chahta, Zindah, Qaadir hai Khuda

Goonga, Behra, Be-Samajh, aur Be-Basar,
Be-Iraada, Murda, Be-Qudrat Bashar

Zaat-e-Kaamil Haq ke hain kaamil Sifaat
Zaat-e-Naaqis 'Abd ke naaqis Sifaat

'Abd wo Rab mein hai haqeeqi ghairiyat (otherness)
Ba-wajood yeh ghairiyat hai 'ayniyat (sameness or exactness)

Gar che har do mein hai zaatan gairiyat (zaat ke aitebaar se gair hai)
Par hai un do mein wujoodan 'ayniyat (wujood ke aitebaar se 'ayn hai kyun ke ma'loom ka apna wujood nai rehta, woh khaali 'anil wujood hain aur jo khariji wujood hai wo bhi haqeeqi nai hai, zilli hai, namood hai bas)

Raastah kalimah mein hai kaunain (dono jahan) ka
Jama' kar dikhlaata hai yeh ziddain (opposites) ka

Jame'-ul-Azdaad (collection of opposites/bundle of contradictions) kaamil peer hai
Kaamil-ul-Irshaad (of full guidance) kaamil peer hai.

'Adam-e-Idhafi ke ma'ani aur qismein

'Adam ke ma'aney aur qismein!!!

'Adam ke ma'aney nahin ke hai.
'Adam ke do qismein hai:
1) 'adam e mahadh 
2) 'Adam e idhaafi


'Adam mahadh woh jiss ka 'thaboot 'ilm e ilaahi mein nah ho aur woh kabhi bhi khaarij mein yaa daaqil mein paayaa nah jaaye. Mathlan- Allah ke jaisa Allah ya Allah ka muqabil Allah.

'Adam e idhaafi wo hai jis ka 'thaboot 'lim e ilaahi mein ho aur jis mein wujood aur wujood ke kamaalaat haasil karney ki  ist'adaad maujood ho aur jo inn kamaalaat ke iste'maal mein mukhtar BHi ho mathlan khoosasan 'insaan '

'Adam e idhaafi ke phir mukhtalif 'ajzaa hai

Taken from khud shanasi and Haqq shanashi by Hadhrat shah kamaalur Rahman SB DB